Experiencing a Sex-Positive Event together: A Guide for Couples

Get familiar with the guide for discussing expectations beforehand by renowned sex blogger Masha Chesnokova.

While you’re preparing to embark on an exhilarating journey of exploration and connection with your partner at our upcoming Sensual Event, it’s important to communicate well in advance.

As excitement mounts for this immersive experience, it's vital to lay the groundwork for a fulfilling and respectful encounter for everybody involved.

Renowned sex blogger Masha Chesnokova provides essential guidance to ensure you navigate this adventure seamlessly alongside your partner and remain ethical in your exploration of hedonism.

Establish Boundaries:

Clearly define the boundaries of your interactions with others. Discuss whether activities like kissing are acceptable, or if you prefer to draw the line at more intimate engagements. Consider establishing a safety word for gracefully exiting interactions.

Respect Others' Boundaries:

When engaging with other attendees at the event, it's crucial to be mindful of their boundaries and preferences. Avoid making assumptions about what others may or may not be comfortable with. Instead, prioritize open communication and obtain explicit consent before initiating any interactions. This includes allowing everybody involved to make informed decisions about their participation on the terms of your relationship model.

Outline Your Plan and Expectations:

While going with the flow can feel liberating, Chesnokova suggests having a general plan. Amidst the array of practices and attractive individuals, knowing your desires and boundaries beforehand can prevent feeling lost. Communicate openly about what you both hope to experience.

Stay Connected:

In the event where you get to explore different spaces, keep in touch with your partner. Observing their experiences might lead to discoveries about shared interests or desires to join certain activities. Witnessing your partner in a new light can strengthen your bond.

Embrace Solo Experiences:

Balance togetherness with solo adventures. Choose at least one activity to pursue independently while clearly outlining your boundaries.

Post-Event Reflection:

After the event, take time to rest and digest the experiences. Set aside a dedicated moment to discuss feelings and emotions that arose during the event. Sharing insights can deepen your connection and improve future joint experiences.

Remember, interaction with others is optional; attending solely to observe and connect with your partner is absolutely valid.

Chesnokova also underscores that a sex-positive event is not a cure-all for relationship issues; it should be approached as an enriching experience within a strong and healthy partnership. If you attend as a couple, prioritize each other's feelings throughout the journey.